Thursday, March 15, 2018

Mistress Ivey

I regret to inform all her friends, readers, and followers...

Georgia Ivey Green died this this evening, March 15th, 2018, at 7:25pm.

Georgia will be sorely missed by many. She was not only the author of several books, she was a wonderful wife and mother.


Wednesday, February 28, 2018


If you don't know how to masturbate raise your hands... Both of them.
Somehow I knew there would be no hands up. But that's NOT what this post is about. This post is about using masturbation as a form of tease and denial (T&D).

For a man, only another person (a woman?) can please him sexually more than he can please himself. Not so with a woman. We are lucking in that. Usually, a woman can please herself more than anyone else. So I think it is safe to say, if there is not a woman involved in your sex-life, then you are doing something wrong!

Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Tease & Denial Should Be FUN!

Obviously, tease and denial (T&D) is fun for the recipient. No matter how many times you do it, he (or she, for that matter) will always want more. But if it is not fun for the teaser, or if it becomes monotonous, the teaser (you) will eventually stop doing it. You may even resent doing it.

I have always said, “Imagination is the key to sexual pleasure.” If you don't have the imagination you need to keep things fresh for the both of you, you will begin to look at it as a chore instead of an enjoyable activity.

Monday, February 5, 2018

Sexual Control

It's all about sexual control. Control a man's sexual outlets and you control the man. If you control when, where, and how he gets to ejaculate, he will be putty in your hands. Punish him when he displeases you, and he will worship at your feet.

Now, of course, the word “punish” can be interpreted in many ways. Whether you choose to use corporal punishment, or withholding sexual pleasure, makes little (or no) difference. The important thing is that you maintain control.

Wednesday, January 24, 2018

Final Step

Sex should be fun! And now it is YOUR turn.

Your partner should be anxious to repeat the previous session. After all, it was all about HIS pleasure. And he DID enjoy it! If he has not, yet, agreed to allow you total control over your sex-lives, then hold out. Simply tell him that until he agrees to your request to be in charge, he is going to get nothing. As a reminder, ask him if he enjoyed what you did to him the last time. Does he want to experience that kind of thing again? If so, he needs to agree to put you in charge.

I doubt he will fight you on this, but if he does, hold out for awhile. If more than a couple of weeks goes by without any sexual encounters, you can simply repeat the last one with one minor change... Bind his hands. This is important. You can bind them to the headboard, to each other, or run a rope under that mattress and bind one hand to each end. Now, when you repeat the last session with his arms immobilized, he will not be able to finish himself off. Thus, he, and his ejaculation, are at your mercy.